I guess some people would probably see going to the grocery store and then cooking three courses on a weeknight, after a day at work and a yoga class, as, well, torture. But I find cooking to be really relaxing. I enjoy the act of cooking as much as eating! It’s a great way for me to unwind from my day, and if I’m lucky and Guy and I are home at the same time, we can chat about our days. Really, getting dinner ready is one of the best parts of any day. Actually, there was a great article in today’s paper about mindful eating, which is about taking your time to eat and enjoy your food, not just inhaling what’s in front of you. We are not ones for electronic devices or TV at the table, and so I can definitely relate. Anyway, at this point maybe you’re wondering what those three courses were?
We had dried black beans from our CSA which I remembered to start soaking in the morning before I left for work. They really plumped up beautifully over the course of the day, and I think the flavor is much more intense and the texture is nicer in dried beans than canned. If you have the time and remember to soak them, they’re really great. I used some of the beans to make a black bean and quinoa salad, and put the rest in the freezer for another time. The salad is dressed in an easy vinaigrette and finished with red onion, scallions and yellow bell pepper. Lots of color and lots of flavor.
Then, I made a chorizo-manchego quick bread and let me tell you what, it was delicious! There is ricotta cheese in there for moisture, scallions for a mild onion flavor – what else could you want, really?
Finally, the pièce de résistance: tapas-style pork tenderloin! You brine the pork tenderloin for an hour, meanwhile caramelizing onions and putting baguette slices topped with brie under the broiler. Add the onions, fry up slices of pork in butter and olive oil, et voila!
By the way, you may have noticed that all these recipes are from my amazing online cooking school, Rouxbe. I can not say enough how amazing it is! No-fail, delicious recipes with video instructions. Get yourself a free trial and check it out!
Many of you dear readers may know already, but I thought this particular news definitely warranted a blog post and some more detail! I have been accepted to present my thesis at a conference at Cornell this spring! The conference is called “The Language of Food: Exploring Representations of the Culinary in Culture” and it takes place in April. (I’m told the website will be updated with my name as one of the presenters at some point!) I will be presenting with three others as part of the Anthropology Panel, Food as Celebration and Spectacle.
My paper is called Chowing Down: How Actresses Use Food to Gain Attention and Lose Respect. If you’re interested, I’m including my 500-word abstract below.
Documented instances of public eating (DIPE) have proliferated in men’s magazines in the past decade. A DIPE occurs during an interview between a journalist (usually male) and an actress with a lot of sex appeal. Her publicist schedules an interview during a meal, hoping to limit the writer’s ability to ask prying questions and providing a built-in topic of conversation; Jeff Gordinier from the New York Times called it “a Hollywood filibuster.” Knowing full well that her order will make its way into the article, the sexy starlet chooses the sort of decadent comfort food bound to defy expectations. She waxes poetic about how much she loves mac and cheese and the journalist eats it up. But readers know better.
Actresses, like the rest of womankind, have a strong sense of duty to curb their appetites and readers often question whether the food has been “planted.” Indeed, it has: DIPE has persisted as a PR tactic for about a decade. Although it appears to be a welcome rejection of the prudishness which formerly cautioned women against eating in public, this dubious embrace of the female appetite offers only the illusion of female power, thinly disguised as liberation. Actresses who use DIPE may gain recognition and attention, but it will not earn them respect. That this utterly hollow salaciousness is seen as a de facto triumph over the traditional second-wave feminist project serves only to highlight the constant tensions between bodily discipline and femininity to which no woman, even an actress, is immune.
I intend to explore a number of factors within American culture that have led to a moment where DIPE can flourish, including:
- Visual media. The way we think about the intersection of food and femininity has changed, paving the way for DIPE to be meaningful to the average reader.
- Food porn. Americans have become accustomed to visually consuming fetishized images of food in the same way they would a centerfold pin-up.
- Celebrity chefs. Cooking shows were the precursor to DIPE.
- Hollywood and food. The embrace of appetite within a DIPE is nothing but a publicist’s fabrication.
- Comfort food. Celebrity DIPEs have resonated so effectively and thoroughly with audiences that average women have begun to work the system the other way, using the indulgence and authenticity of fried food as a catapult into the national spotlight.
- Softcore starlets. Written DIPEs, which do not leave much to the imagination to begin with, are often accompanied by photographs in a weird convergence of food porn and actual porn.
- Lipstick feminism. Actresses who consent to DIPE are heavily invested in the appeal of their physicality and use it to their advantage.
Food and femininity have always been uneasy bedfellows, and DIPE is the latest form of negotiation between the two. The problem is that actresses are on the wrong side of the table. Far more subtle than the corset and yet in many ways just as restrictive, DIPE is a reminder that women are still seen as objects to be looked instead of individuals.
Now that I’ve recovered from the cooking extravaganza that was Chinese new year, I felt in the mood to cook something interesting again this evening. I decided to make some raisin walnut bread for tomorrow’s breakfast,

and a sausage ragu to serve over polenta.

Meanwhile, the cook has to have a glass of wine!

And, as an added bonus, I made some olive oil and salt bread. It was ridiculously easy, and hopefully it will be delicious!
Chinese New Year begins tomorrow, so Guy and I had a party to commemorate the year of the dragon, and, let’s face it, eat a lot of yummy Chinese food! We spent the weekend preparing and cooking and were lucky to have lots of friends to help us celebrate! I will admit that the food I made wasn’t new year-specific, but it was what is in my repertoire. Here are some highlights:
For several wonderful years, my dear friend Robyn and I would spend a quiet new year’s eve in New York, usually going to a movie and ordering takeout, watching the ball drop in our pj’s. That was late high school and most of college. Somewhere along the way, Robyn moved to France, I met Guy and our standing holiday plans had to change. Guy and I now have standing holiday plans with our dear friends Pat and Sarah:
Meanwhile, Robyn has returned from France (hooray!) and now lives in Boston. She was able to come and spend the holiday with the four of us in a great combination of old and new.

People often think Guy and Pat are brothers, which is untrue but very sweet. You can see why:

We really had a great start to 2012. Over the years we’ve shifted from takeout and pj’s to home cooked, multi-course affairs and cocktail dresses. It’s really the people that make the holiday special though, isn’t it?

PS, Thanks to Pat for these great pictures!
We go to see the balloons get blown up Wednesday evening before the parade!
Anne, me and Carey are dressed for Thanksgiving!
Obligatory “camera smiles.” (Sorry Guy!)
The cook!
Annual visit to Santa!
For more thanksgiving pictures, check me out on Flickr!
After all the running around of yesterday, it was kind of refreshing to stay closer to home today. We had our friends Mike and Laura over for dinner tonight, and I actually spent most of the day getting the house, the meal and myself ready for the evening. I really love cooking and entertaining, so it was a pleasure for me to have a day to make everything just so.
On the menu: brined pork tenderloin with butternut squash risotto and green beans. (Please note, if you can, how the color of the flowers matches the napkins.)
For dessert, apple pie! (Please note how there is an A for Alex carved into the top.)
Tomorrow: lunch with my friend Nicole, flu shot, yoga, class, hopefully switching my fall and summer clothes.
Let me tell you what, Mondays are awesome when you don’t have to go to work! (What, you knew that already?)
We started the morning off well with coffee and toast (from yesterday’s homemade sandwich loaf) for breakfast, then I headed downtown to yoga for class from 10 to 11:30. Morning yoga is really a glorious thing, and I very much appreciate the fact that I have the physical ability, leisure time and resources available to practice.
After class I psyched myself up for some serious shopping – and I don’t mean psyched as in, was excited and looking forward to shopping. I mean mentally preparing myself to try on lots of clothes which may or may not fit, be the size that I think/wish I am, be the right style/cut/price… etc. Ladies, I know you know what I’m talking about. Shopping for clothes is not as easy as it was when we were cute teenagers and fit into everything. Actually, as it happens, once you get into your 20s you find that (or, I have found, at any rate) that stores, sizes, styles are all a new game, and you really just need to ditch your expectations and find things that you feel confident and happy in – regardless of the size on the tag. I’ve been trying to follow Guy’s advice to think of jeans as size “balloons” or “coffee cups” – vanity sizing means that the number is basically arbitrary, even when pants are listed as waist size. That’s right, I’m saying it. Go ahead and measure your waist and/or your hips, and see if the number you find is the same as what’s on your jeans. For me, once I found that they really did not correspond in any way, I just thought, hell with it, I’ll buy whatever I like and try not to waste my energy on size anxiety.
Phew! Even with all this self-reassurance, it was a tiring hour or so in Ann Taylor. But I got some nice pieces that I’m happy with, and I’m satisfied to leave it at that. I rewarded my efforts with a nice, relaxed lunch at 71 Irving with a turkey sandwich, iced tea and my New Yorker magazine.
After a few more blissful hours wandering through the Village, I headed to class, and eventually back home to make lion’s head meatballs for dinner. For the uninitiated, they are giant, pork meatballs that have tasty asian flavors built in (water chestnuts, sesame oil scallions, ginger, among other goodies) lightly pan friend, then finished in a broth with bok choy and rice noodles. Yum.
And I managed to reorganize behind the bathroom mirrors, because let’s face it, it’s all my crap back there anyway. (Sorry Guy!) It seems like with the seasons changing, a week off and a new job in the immediate future, now is a good time to reassess and get myself organized. Tomorrow’s project, among others, is to switch my summer and fall clothes. Oh, and a small dinner gathering with friends. Get ready for some fun food pictures!



























